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The
Federal Trade Commission's Guide to Funerals: When
a loved one dies, grieving family members and friends often
are confronted with dozens of decisions about the funeral -
all of which must be made quickly and often under great emotional
duress. This guide may help with some of your questions.
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National
Cemetery Administration: Information for veterans
on completing VA Form 40-133 and application for standard
government headstone or marker. This site will also tell you
about how to receive your
Presidential
Memorial Certificate. Many veteran families are not
aware they are entitled to this benefit.
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AARP is
a nonprofit, nonpartisan organization dedicated to helping older
Americans achieve lives of independence, dignity and purpose. Its
publications, Funeral Goods and Services and Pre-Paying for Your
Funeral, are available free. This and other funeral-related information
is posted on the AARP web site.
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Funeral
Consumers Alliance is a nonprofit organization dedicated
to protecting a consumer's right to choose a meaningful, dignified,
affordable funeral
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Cremation
Solutions - this company has
information
on the grieving process and links to organizations which
may be of assistance to you.
Prayers for Internment
We therefore commit his body to the deep, to be turned
into corruption, looking for the resurrection of the body (when the
sea shall give up her dead,) and the life of the world to come, through
our Lord Jesus Christ; who at his coming shall change our vile body,
that it may be like his glorious body, according to the mighty working
whereby he is able to subdue all things unto himself.
- Common
Prayer Book
Some Appropriate Verses
Just let us know you wishes and we will be happy to accommodate you
in any manner we are able. Below are some simple poems/prayers that
may be appropriate.
Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I
am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When
you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet
birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do
not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. - - Anonymous.
When I am gone, release me -
let me go I have so many things to see and do.- You must not tie yourself
to me with tears - Be happy that we had so many years- I gave you love,
you can only guess how much you gave me in happiness - I thank you
for the love each have shown but now it is time I traveled alone -
So grieve awhile for me if grieve you must, - then let your grief be
comforted by trust - It is only for a while that we must part so bless
those memories within your heart.- I will not be far away, for life
goes on. so if you need me, call and I will come. - Though you cannot
see or touch me, I will be near - And if you listen with your heart,
you will hear - All of my love around you, soft and clear.- Then when
you must come this way alone, I will greet you with a smile and "welcome
home"
Death is nothing at all -
I have only slipped away into the next room, I am I and you are you,
whatever we were to each other that we still are. Call me by my old
familiar name; speak to me in the easy way, which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone; wear no forced air of solemnity
or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed
together. Play, smile, think of me, and pray for me. Let my name
be forever the same as it always was, let it be spoken without an
effort, without the ghost of a shadow on it. Life means all that
it ever meant. It is the same as it always was; there is absolutely
unbroken continuity. I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere
very near, just around the corner. ··· All is
well. -- Canon Scott Holland